Day 2: Eiffel Views, Beloved Bistros, and the Heights of Montmartre!

What a day! Day two was an absolute triumph of sightseeing, though our feet and thighs definitely know itโ€”we were happily exhausted and home by 7:30 PM.

We started the morning by securing our 7-day transportation pass, which is already proving to be the best investment. It lets us hop between buses, trams, and the metro to reach every spot on our Parisian bucket list!

First up: the iconic Eiffel Tower. We had another phenomenal tour guide who shared all the fascinating history and secrets of the Iron Lady. While we skipped the very top, the views from the middle level were still absolutely amazingโ€”a truly spectacular panorama of the City of Light. A highlight for me was descending! I had the chance to take on the Eiffel Tower stairs with seasoned traveler number two. By the time we reached the bottom, our legs were definitely letting us know exactly how many steps we’d conqueredโ€”a true Parisian workout!

View from the second level

After soaking up those breathtaking views and steps, we were ready for lunch. And what a treat that was! Our seasoned world traveler led us to a favorite haunt: Le Basilic Restaurant. It’s the kind of place with incredible food and a classic Parisian ambiance, and we can now officially add it to our list of must-revisit spots.

Refueled, we made our way to the charming hills of Montmartre. The view from the Sacrรฉ-Cล“ur Basilica was simply beautifulโ€”the city spread out below us like a postcard. To reach the top, we used the winding streets instead of the famous steps, and for our descent, we rode the funicular down, which conveniently dropped us off near the stunning Abbesses Station. Montmartre also provided the perfect setting for some much-needed souvenir shopping! We found wonderful gifts for friends and family, ticking that mission off our list.

Two full days down, and Paris is still dazzling us at every turn.

Stay tuned for where The Ladies Who Voyage head next!

Day 1: Parisian Transport Triumph, Latin Quarter Charms, and Louvre Crowds

Bonjour again, from The Ladies Who Voyage! Day one of official sightseeing is in the books, and what a whirlwind it was.

First things first: can I just say that the French transportation system is absolutely amazing? Seriously! We navigated the city like pros, starting with a smooth bus ride to the rail station, and then connecting seamlessly to the metro (subway) system. Itโ€™s so efficient and clean โ€“ it made getting around a breeze but we had the seasoned traveler that mapped out our entire day. She is amazing.

Our day kicked off with a brilliant Latin Quarter Walking Tour. Our guide was wonderful โ€“ a true local who had been educated right there in the historical schools of the area. Talk about getting the insider’s perspective!

Before meeting him, we got a glimpse of authentic Parisian life when we stumbled upon a bustling Paris Flea Market. The sights, the sounds, the treasures โ€“ it was a fantastic, unexpected way to start the morning. The Latin Quarter itself is simply fascinating; itโ€™s the educational heart of Paris, home to the iconic Sorbonne and the prestigious Universities of Paris. The history just oozes from every cobbled street. We ended the tour in the beautiful Luxembourg Gardens. It is a beautiful oasis in the city. There were toy sailboats, beautiful statues and the Medicis Fountain. Hard to believe it is a free public park and it was brimming with families enjoying a Sunday afternoon.

We broke for a truly perfect Parisian treat: coffee and macaroons! That sweet, colorful indulgence was the little boost we needed before tackling the next major stop: the magnificent Louvre Museum.

Making our way inside, we were on a mission. Naturally, our first stop was the iconic smile of the Mona Lisa. From there, we soaked up the classical beauty of the Venus de Milo, and then stood in awe beneath the powerful Winged Victory of Samothrace. We managed to spot many of the famed Greek Gods and goddesses, too!

I have to be honest, the Louvre was packed. It was so crowded that, after hitting the major highlights, we decided to make a tactical retreat. We made our way back to the efficient subway system, connected with the bus, and were home in time to relax our tired feet.

And how did we end this epic first day? With the best food ever at a little gem called Daol Bailey! Surprisingly, it wasn’t traditional French โ€“ we decided on incredible Korean food. What a perfect, satisfying cap to a truly unforgettable day.

Stay tuned for Day 2 adventures! We have a feeling Paris is just getting started with us

Paris Through Fresh Eyes: The Ladies Who Voyage Take on the City of Light!

Oh My God, Paris! “The Ladies Who Voyage” Have Arrived!

Hello, everyone! Itโ€™s me, the non-retiree of the bunch, writing to you from the most beautiful city Iโ€™ve ever seen. “The Ladies Who Voyage” have officially landed, and seriously, my eyes are amazed at the beauty here.

Let me set the scene: there are four of us. Three are living the retired dream, and then thereโ€™s me, still clocking inโ€”but definitely clocking out for this trip! We’re a mixed bag: two of our ladies are these seasoned, fabulous world travelers who could navigate an airport blindfolded. The other two of us? Weโ€™re in Paris for the first time though we are seasoned business travelers. For our first time we are absorbing everything.

My first impression? I started with the light. I don’t know if it’s the quality or just the feeling of being here, but it just hits differently.

The travel day was a breeze, thank goodness. Less than six hours in the air, no drama, no eventsโ€”it was blissfully uneventful. Even the trip from the airport to our resort was smooth. And the resort? Beautiful. We’re already obsessed.

The very start of our Parisian adventure involved waiting for our world travelers. They were coming in hot from Italy, and the rest of us were just chilling, ready to kick things off. How did this novice (me!) begin her first trip to Paris? With a stunning glass of rosรฉ, of course! It was the most perfect welcome drink

We made it. We traveled together, and now weโ€™re here. Get ready, because “The Ladies Who Voyage” are about to explore Paris, and I can’t wait to share every amazing moment with you!

More soon!

Hope is My Rock: The Unshakeable Power of an Awakened Spirit

Last week, I began the 21-Day Meditation Experience: Hope in Uncertain Times with Deepak Chopra and Oprah. I had already read Deepakโ€™s โ€œDigital Dharma.โ€ My goal was to find the scriptural reflections of these universal truths, so I used Google Gemini to locate Bible verses that matched the teachings from my meditations. Although this is a 21-day meditation program, the insights from Week 1 were so powerful that I felt called to share my reflections.

I realized that life is a continuous process of growth and self-discovery, often referred to as personal evolution. It’s a journey from one state of being to another, marked by increased self-awareness, purpose, and fulfillment. At the core of this evolution is the need for individuals to commit to understanding and living from their true selves.

I read Deepak Chopra’s Digital Dharma earlier this year. ‘Dharma’ means purpose or universal law, relevant in the digital age. It guides a living mindfully and meaningfully, using technology for personal growth rather than distraction. The same principles of self-awareness, compassion, and purpose apply in our digital world.

Hope is My Rock: The Unshakeable Power of an Awakened Spirit

We often talk about hope as a fragile thing, a whispered wish, or a faint light at the end of a very long tunnel. Hope is not just a feeling. It is a power sourceโ€”real, tangible, and available to us every single day?

My hope isn’t passive; it’s a force, my rock, the foundation of my strength and security. In a world of shifting sands, this inner fortress helps me stand firm. Itโ€™s about engaging with life, not wishing for a miracle. As Psalm 62:6 says, “Truly he is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will not be shaken.” Another verse affirms this: “The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.” (Psalm 18:2 NIV).

The Power of Awakened Hope

Passive hope waits, saying, “I hope things get better.” True hopeโ€”making you strong and secureโ€”is proactive. It comes from self-awareness, knowing your strengths, values, and connection to something greater. Understanding yourself reveals your capacity to act, influence, and create. This scripture beautifully reminds us that “faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see” (Hebrews 11:1 NIV), encouraging us to trust even when we can’t see the full picture.

This active hope helps us face each day with a fresh outlook. As the sun rises, we get a new chance to start again. Hope renews life daily, helping us leave yesterdayโ€™s burdens and embrace todayโ€™s opportunities. “The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” (Lamentations 3:22-23 NIV)

This hope inspires our actions, as Paul reminds us: “…your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.” (1 Thessalonians 1:3 NIV). It’s a hope that renews us: “But those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” (Isaiah 40:31 NIV).

Gratitude: The Fuel for Hope

There is a link between gratitude and hope: the more grateful you are, the more hopeful you become. Gratitude involves appreciating what you have, building trust in a benevolent universe and shifting focus from lack to abundance. This mental shift fosters hope, as giving thanks trains your spirit to see the good already present and believe in future goodness. As 1 Thessalonians 5:18 says, “give thanks in all circumstances; for this is Godโ€™s will for you in Christ Jesus.”

Finding a Reason to Hope in Every Situation

The ultimate expression of awakened hope is finding a reason to hope in every situation. It’s a courageous choice to see opportunity and purpose amid challenge. Hope doesn’t depend on perfection but on lessons, growth, and endurance in the moment. It isn’t conditional on circumstances; it’s a fundamental, always-available part of you. For “in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” (Romans 8:28 NIV). This view sees suffering as character-building: “we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.” (Romans 5:3-4 NIV).

Fear: The Illusion, Awareness: The Reality

On our journey to hope, fear tries to hold us back by whispering doubts and painting worst-case scenarios, trying to make us believe we’re powerless. But hereโ€™s a truth: Fear isnโ€™t real. My awareness is.

Fear is a mental construct, a reaction to perceived threats and an illusion. Our awareness is the essence of our beingโ€”constant and observant. Tapping into it reveals that fear is a fleeting emotion, not a fundamental truth.

Uncertainty is neutral, simply the unknown where anything is possible. Our life depends on how we react. Without hope, uncertainty paralyzes us, making us weak and afraid. With hope, it becomes a canvas for courage and a crucible where our best selves are forged.

In hope, I am fearless. As declared in Psalms 27:1 (NIV) “The LORD is my light and my salvationโ€”whom shall I fear? The LORD is the stronghold of my lifeโ€”of whom shall I be afraid?” This hope is a call to action: “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.” (Joshua 1:9 NIV). This hope serves as “an anchor for the soul, firm and secure.” (Hebrews 6:19 NIV).

You Are the Wholeness of Existence

This profound hope stems from a deeper truth: I am the wholeness of a universal existence. We are not isolated fragments, but integral, interconnected parts of a vast, intelligent universe. When we truly grasp this, we realize that we are never alone, never truly separated.

And when you are realโ€”authentic, present, and connected to this universal truthโ€”you unlock infinite hope. Where there are infinite possibilities, there is infinite hope. Hope isn’t just a feeling; it’s a fundamental part of consciousness itselfโ€”a conscious choice to see potential in every moment. The universe provides us what we need, not always what we want, but exactly what serves our highest growth. As the Scripture promises: “And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:19 NIV). He has “plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11 NIV).

This realization gives me every hope imaginable. Itโ€™s an unshakeable confidence that comes from knowing my place in the cosmic tapestry and trusting in the unfolding journey. “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 15:13 NIV).

References

  • Chopra, D. (2013). Digital Dharma: Living a Spiritual Life in a Material World. Harmony.
  • Chopra, D. (n.d.). 21-Day Meditation Experience: Hope in Uncertain Times. Retrieved from https://www.deepakchopra.com
  • Google. (2025). Gemini [Large language model]. Retrieved September 7, 2025, from https://gemini.google.com
  • Psalm 62:6
  • Psalm 18:2
  • Hebrews 11:1
  • Lamentations 3:22-23
  • 1 Thessalonians 1:3
  • Isaiah 40:31
  • 1 Thessalonians 5:18
  • Romans 8:28
  • Romans 5:3-4
  • Psalm 27:1
  • Joshua 1:9
  • Hebrews 6:19
  • Philippians 4:19
  • Jeremiah 29:11
  • Romans 15:13

The Journey Inward: Unveiling Our True Self Through Truth and Light

Life is a continuous unfolding, a dynamic process of growth and self-discovery that many refer to as personal evolution. Itโ€™s a journey from one state of being to another, marked by increasing self-awareness, purpose, and ultimately, fulfillment. At the heart of this evolution lies a profound commitment to understanding and living from our true self.

This entire exploration was sparked by a specific and deeply personal journey: I started the 21-Day Meditation Experience: Become What You Believe with Deepak Chopra and Oprah. As I immersed myself in the teachings from Deepak’s “Digital Dharma,” I felt a strong desire to ground these concepts in my own faith. My goal was to find the scriptural reflection of these universal truths. So, I used Google Gemini as a tool to find the exact Bible verses that resonated with the teachings from the meditations.

Throughout this journey, I’ve come to realize that truly living in alignment with my authentic self isn’t something that just happens on its own. It takes a conscious effort to really understand who I am, to express that truth in my daily life, and to make choices that reflect my inner values. Itโ€™s been a transformative experience, pushing me to engage actively with my own identity rather than just waiting for it to unfold.

As I began my inner journey, I discovered that my core beliefs are the fundamental pillars of my existence, rooted in love, self-worth, security, and fulfillment. When these beliefs are strong and positive, they influence how I connect with others and reveal my true potential. This realization has transformed my approach to life, guiding me toward deeper connections and a greater sense of purpose.

Many people find hope and optimism in faith, connecting them to a sense of purpose and a benevolent guiding force. As stated in Jeremiah 29:11 (KJV), “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.” This perspective encourages us to trust in a greater plan and fosters lasting optimism.

A crucial step in this evolution is the act of self-forgiveness. We all act without love sometimes, falling short of our ideal selves. But as Romans 8:1 (KJV) declares, “There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus.” Godโ€™s profound forgiveness for us serves as a model for how we should treat ourselves, releasing the burdens of guilt and shame to embrace our renewed identity.

Ultimately, this journey reveals that truth lies within our silent awareness. It is not something external but an internal state reached by quieting the mind and tapping into our innate knowing. This deep awareness grants us a state of eternal bliss, a profound joy independent of external circumstances. 

This bliss is something that resonates deeply within us, connecting us to universal experiences like love, truth, beauty, freedom, and creativity. When I tap into these feelings, I realize that my core beliefs draw me closer to others, helping foster empathy and connection, even with those who seem different from me. It reminds me of the message in Romans 12:4-5 (NIV): “We, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others.” Itโ€™s a powerful reminder that we are all intertwined in this shared journey of life.

This transformative journey culminates in a powerful declaration: “I open myself to truth and light.” This isn’t a passive wish, but an active commitment to invite wisdom and grace into every aspect of our lives. It’s a surrender to what is real and good, trusting that it will guide our path. As Psalm 43:3 (NIV) humbly prays, “Send out your light and your truth; let them guide me. Let them bring me to your holy mountain, to the place where you dwell.”

By consistently choosing to speak, act, and know from my true self, guided by truth and light, I not only create my own identity but also unveil the authentic, interconnected, and eternally flourishing being I was destined to become. Each decision I make, rooted in my core values, helps me align more closely with my true purpose and encourages growth on my journey.

References:

  • The 21-Day Meditation Experience: Become What You Believe by Deepak Chopra and Oprah Winfrey
  • Jeremiah 29:11 (King James Version)
  • Romans 8:1 (King James Version)
  • Romans 12:4-5 (New International Version)
  • Psalm 43:3 (New International Version)
  • Google Gemini. (2025). Google Gemini (Version 1.0). Google.

Generations of Grace: My Familyโ€™s Journey from Frankie Cheeks to Medicine

My family’s legacy of resilience, rooted in the red soil of Alabama, has carried us from slavery through Reconstruction, Jim Crow, and the Great Migration, ultimately leading me to a life of serving others through medicine after graduating from Meharry Medical College. While I have great admiration for the men in my family, particularly my extraordinary uncles, I want to focus on the women this July 4th. We held our family reunion in Birmingham from June 19 to 21, which felt surreal to experience on Juneteenth. I have always seen these women as beautiful and strong, exemplifying grace in their heels, hats, and gloves on Sunday mornings.

Frankie Cheeks: Born into Bondage, Living Free in Alabama

In 1840, my great-great-grandmother, Franklin โ€œFrankieโ€ Cheeks, was born into slavery in Alabama. I wish I knew the story behind her name, Franklin. She entered a world of forced labor, family separations, and total denial of rights. Frankie never knew her mother, but she became one herself, laying down the roots of a legacy that began in Alabama and would ripple far beyond. She lived through the Civil War and, at 25, was freed by the ratification of the 13th Amendment in 1865. Just one year later, she became a U.S. citizen under the Civil Rights Act of 1866. Frankie remained in Alabama, witnessing her daughter and granddaughter born into freedom.

Charlotte Matson: A Daughter of Reconstruction in Alabama

In 1866, Frankieโ€™s daughterโ€”my great-grandmother Charlotte Matsonโ€”was born in Alabama at the dawn of the Reconstruction era. She married Redmond Arrington, the son of Luke and Lucy, both of whom were formerly enslaved. They built their life under both the hopeful promise and harsh reality of post-emancipation America. Charlotteโ€™s life intersected with the brief but powerful Reconstruction efforts, the rise of white supremacist terror, and the 1883 dismantling of civil rights protections. Her resolve helped carry our family through these storms, planting deeper roots in Alabama.


Maggie Arrington: Faith and Fortitude in Alabama

In 1887, Charlotte gave birth to my grandmother, Maggie Arrington, in Alabama. That same year marked the founding of the National Colored Baseball League, reflecting a growing sense of Black cultural pride. Maggie was a woman of quiet strength. As the wife of a minister, she served as the spiritual anchor for her community. She faced the Great Depression with resilience, supporting her neighbors and offering prayers during the difficult Scottsboro Boys trials (1931โ€“1937). Maggie and my grandfather lived in Athens, Alabama. I knew her, but not as well, because they often visited us. After she and my grandfather divorced, she ultimately moved to Chicago. I can only imagine what she was thinking during that time, as I never saw her flinch in the face of change. Maggie witnessed significant events, including the rise of the NAACP and the birth of โ€œLift Every Voice and Sing.โ€ Her life was deeply rooted in and sustained by her unwavering faith.

Ermer Giddens Waldrop: Born into Migration

In 1910, Maggie gave birth to my grandmother, Ermer Giddens Waldrop, as the First Great Migration was underway. Though many families fled the South, mine remained in Alabama, holding firm to faith and community. Ermer grew up during an era of profound transformation, marked by the founding of the National Urban League, the Black Cultural Renaissance, and a surge in activism. Though racial discrimination remained entrenched, she was part of a generation that pressed forward against resistance.

Ermer married John Waldrop, a man who was respectfully known throughout our community as Mr. John, while my grandmother was affectionately called Miss Ermer. To us, they were Big Mama and Big Daddy. Their decency and dignity left a lasting impression on everyone who knew them. I grew up in the shadow of their goodness, guided by the respect they earned and the example they set. My grandfather lived on the land that had been passed down through his family, and I never felt that we were poor. My grandmother managed his paycheck and took care of their ten children. Despite losing significant vision due to glaucoma, she was an avid reader and could quote scripture from the Bible. I often had my Bible open, and she could recite verses verbatim.


The Great Depression & A Legacy Renewed

Ermer ( Big Mama) came of age during the Great Depression in Alabama. Like so many Black families, we may have faced disproportionate hardship, limited opportunities, and systemic injustice. Yet her mother, Maggie, remained a source of strength, offering spiritual guidance as the community struggled.

In 1938, my motherโ€”Ermer Jean Waldropโ€”was born in Alabama. She was one of 10 children that survived. They were 5 brothers and 5 sisters. Willie Mae (Sook), Beatrice (Annie Bea), Lucinda (Cindy), Ermer Jean, and Annette. My mother’s birth marked the continuation of a legacy rooted in endurance and striving toward transformation. I had the opportunity to have three generations. Maggie died in 1963. Big Mama (Ermer) died in 2006. My mother has 4 girls I am the oldest. I don’t remember a day that she did not work. I did not know we were considered at the poverty level based on her earnings until I filled out my financial aid papers for college.

My Journey: Rooted in Love and Perseverance

From the courage of Frankie to the quiet leadership of Miss Ermer (Big Mama) and my mother, Ermer, I inherited more than just storiesโ€”I inherited a sense of purpose. I went on to complete my education at Meharry Medical College, one of the countryโ€™s most esteemed historically Black institutions. There, I trained to heal, serve, and advocateโ€”echoing the resilience of my ancestors with every patient I care for and every life I touch. My career in medicine isnโ€™t merely a personal achievement; itโ€™s the fulfillment of generations who prayed, sacrificed, and persevered. They walked so that I could run. They endured so that I could heal. I honor them every single day.
This storyโ€”my storyโ€”is a living testament to whatโ€™s possible when courage courses through our veins. From the brutality of enslavement in Alabama to the many hospital rooms I have had the privilege to enter filled with hope, my familyโ€™s journey encompasses both injustice and triumph, silence and song.

To honor their legacy is to act with purpose. Today, I proudly celebrate them and their enduring love, which has empowered my independence.

Hereโ€™s a visual timeline of Black History in Alabama (1840โ€“2025),


๐Ÿ•ฐ๏ธ Black History in Alabama: A Visual Timeline

Year(s)Event/MilestoneFamily Connection
1840Slavery is deeply entrenched in Alabama; cotton drives demand for enslaved laborFrankie Cheeks is born into slavery
1860Arrival of the Clotilda, last known slave ship, in Mobileโ€”
1861โ€“1865Civil War; Alabama joins the ConfederacyFrankie experiences the effects of the war
1865Slavery was abolished via the 13th AmendmentFrankie becomes a freedwoman
1866Civil Rights Act passed; grants Black citizenshipFrankie becomes a U.S. citizen
1866Formation of the Ku Klux Klan in nearby TennesseeCharlotte Matson is born
1870First Black Alabamians elected to Congress during Reconstructionโ€”
1877End of Reconstruction; rise of Jim Crow lawsโ€”
1887National Colored Baseball League foundedMaggie Arrington is born
1890Penny Savings Bank (first Black-owned bank in Alabama) was founded in Birmingham.โ€”
1910First Great Migration begins; National Urban League foundedErmer Giddens Waldrop is born
1920Birmingham Black Barons Negro League team formedโ€”
1931โ€“1937Scottsboro Boys trials highlight racial injustice
1938Mary McLeod Bethune leads a federal agency;
New Deal offers mixed progress
Ermer Jean Waldrop is born
1955Montgomery Bus Boycott begins after Rosa Parks’ arrestโ€”
196316th Street Baptist Church bombing kills 4 girls__
1965Selma to Montgomery marches; Voting Rights Act passedโ€”
1979Richard Arrington Jr. becomes Birminghamโ€™s first Black mayorโ€”
1992Alabama elects first Black female state senator, Sundra Escott-RussellLegacy continues in my medical career
2019Steven Reed elected Montgomeryโ€™s first Black mayorโ€”
2025Ongoing efforts to preserve Black history amid education policy debates

What an exciting last few weeks!

The past two weeks have truly been full of excitement. I was able to witness some high points for my colleagues and for myself. The positive energy and sense of achievement have been contagious, filling each day with a vibrant atmosphere. Seeing everyone’s hard work and dedication paying off is inspiring, making each success even more meaningful.

It all began with the opportunity to accompany our Chief Medical Officer for two of our hospitals, Dr. Geralda Xavier MD MBA MPH FACEP, to the NAACP Scholarship event. Dr. Xavier serves as the Regional CMO for Newton-Hackettstown, and her dedication to advancing healthcare in our community is truly inspiring.

The event itself was the Warren/Sussex County Branch of the NAACP 2024 Freedom Fund Scholarship Gala, and it was an incredibly uplifting experience. Witnessing the presentation of $20,000 in scholarships to six deserving recipients was a powerful reminder of the impact that organizations and individuals can have on the lives of others. It was a celebration of academic achievement, perseverance, and the bright futures of the scholarship recipients.

I had the opportunity to attend the New Jersey Medical Association Scholarship Gala.

My daughter Sade Randall-Frazier, DO, MS, was among the honorees. She is graduating from her final fellowship in Forensic Psychiatry.

Also, we honored the late Dr. Frederick Douglas. His daughter the now retired Dr. Elaine Douglas established a Scholarship to honor a resident going into a Family Medicine Program. This year Munifa Wheeler MSIV Hackensack Meridian School of Medicine was the recipient.

Next up was the 2024 Annual Spring Meeting for the Society for Teachers of Family Medicine in LA. There we graduated our fourth cohort for the Leadership for Scholarship Fellowship. Here are a few of our graduates:

STFM also allowed us to have some fun at the STFM Foundation Medapalooza which was one of our many fundraising events.

Mother’s Day was a downtime. Unfortunately, it was cold and rainy. I did speak to my own Mother and my sisters.

I was so honored by my selection by the Union County Human Relations Commission to be recognized for my efforts to identify and address disparities in patient outcomes and underrepresented minority physicians in clinical care, academics, and leadership. I was among such extraordinary people who are contributing to our Union County community.

The big surprise came when I was named by Beckers as 231+ Black healthcare leaders to know | 2024 I was so proud that STFM recognized me.

Today I am in Galveston Texas with my colleagues Kendall Campbell and Jose Rodriquez. I am so honored to be able to present my insights on leadership and the importance of scholarship

The month will culminate with a trip to Atlanta, where I am honored to accompany our CMO, Dr. Shai Gavi, as he presents at the 41st annual ENRICH course sponsored by the Academy of Communication in Healthcare,

โ€œWe must set out to do a good job, irrespective of race, and do it so well that nobody could do it better.โ€ Dr. Martin Luther King

The unpredictable transatlantic crossing

I decided I needed total relaxation, but starting the 11-day journey across the Atlantic Ocean felt slightly unsettling. It was not the usual set sail fanfare because it was a rainy, bleak day. After we managed to get settled in and found some lunch at a lovely place called The Local Grill, I felt much more settled, and this would be our spot for breakfast for a few days as we adjusted to the time change. We had an amazing dinner and walked around the ship. It was quite noisy when we opened the door to the balcony. We were greeted by the roaring and crashing of the waves of the unsettled and powerful Atlantic Ocean. At that moment, I was overwhelmed by its vastness.

Sea Day 1

I had hoped to feel more relaxed, especially since I had this amazing view from my balcony.

It was Valentineโ€™s Day. I got a facial and made it back in time to dress for dinner. I had booked reservations at Le Bistro, which was a great choice.

Sea Day 2

The day started with wind and rain, but the lines on my face softened. I was faced with nothing to do but read. I finished a book and took a mobile phone photography class. I learned new settings on my phone for taking and editing pictures. I was not aware of all the new features that had been added.

We also had a great time walking around the ship and listening to music.

Day 3

Oh, the lines in my face. I am feeling too serious

Day 4

We spent the day again reading and watching waves as I reflected on the past year.

We listened to great music and strolled down memory lane

Yes! Beatlemania and Sgt Pepperโ€™s Lonely Hearts Band.

Day 5

I did morning yoga with this view and then did another facial

Day 6

The lines are going away, and I really feel I can relax and not feel the need to be anywhere but where I am. The ocean was calling me, and I found myself thinking of those who had made the crossing before me. I felt a twinge of sadness but grateful that they had survived so I could be here.

Day 7

What a relaxing morning. Early breakfast and sitting in the Observation Lounge before the crowd came. So great sitting with my best friend.

We started the day as usual but in our walking found information on a wine tasting.

Day 8

What can I say. Read another book and more yoga

Our morning coffee view

Day 9

Day 10

We were treated to shows and a salute from our amazing crew.

Day 11

I did not want to leave

Everyone should be sequestered away for rest and reflection without access to the news, TV, or social media.

Now I am back, and I know I will take this journey again.

Time to Reflect – I decided to start it London

It feels so wonderful to write again. 2023 began with lofty goals that were upended by unexpected events and the need to pivot. It ended with a flurry of projects that are slated to be executed in 2024. I gave up a lot and needed to right my course. 2024 started with some surprises but nothing that could not be handled. There were new players but the same themes.

“I must say, my soul was in need of this trip.” I sent emails beforehand to inform my colleagues about my two-week absence. In preparation for the journey, I carefully selected my wardrobe, opting for light clothes. Our destination was London, where we planned to spend two days at the Kimpton Fitzroy.”

London Day 1-

We arrived at the hotel and instead of sleeping, we decided to have breakfast and explore the city. After getting fresh clothes, we took the subway to Piccadilly Circus and visited the Royal Academy of Arts to see the “Entangled Pasts, 1768-now: Art, Colonialism, and Change” exhibit. The exhibit showcases 100 artworks that explore the role of art in shaping narratives about topics such as empire, colonialism, enslavement, resistance, abolition, and indenture.

We then headed back to the hotel for a very quiet meal and then a much-needed good night’s sleep. We did not watch the Super Bowl.

London Day 2

We were just a 20-minute walk away from the Thames. We were lucky to have a day of sunshine. So, we decided to start our day by walking through the theatre district and then heading towards the river through the bridge. To our surprise, we stumbled upon the Globe Theatre which is the third version of the original one. It was a magnificent sight and reminded me of all the hours I had spent learning lines from the Sonnets for my honors English class and the Shakespeare course I took in college.

On to Westminster Abbey and Parliament with some familiar places on the way.

Roy, at the last minute, asked for the map. Our usual routine of getting lost and then finding our way. We made our way back to the hotel.

Day 3 and on the way to South Hampton

We opted to take the train to South Hampton. It was considerably nicer, and we ended up at just a 10-minute drive to the port. What a great beginning! We were going to start our Transatlantic Cruise on the Norwegian Joy. I wanted the experience of not stopping in portsโ€”just time to be with my thoughts and mull over the next steps. So I was up for the adventure but not the pouring rain.

What have I been doing since March 2020?

I really missed sharing my reflections this past year. My posts were inconsistent. I felt like the past two years had sapped my creativity, I had my performance review and finally had to look over some accomplishments. I want to thank all of my colleagues who shared in my success. We were able to accomplish this together over the past two years:

  1. Rodrรญguez JE, Wusu MH, Anim T, Allen KC, Washington JC. Abolish the Minority Woman Tax! J Women’s Health (Larchmt). 2020 November 20. doi: 10.1089/jwh.2020.8884. Epub ahead of print. PMID: 33216695.
  2. Foster KE, Johnson CN, Carvajal DN, Piggott C, Reavis K, Edgoose JYC, Elliott TC, Gold M, Rodrรญguez JE, Washington JC. Dear White People. Ann Fam Med. 2021 Jan-Feb;19(1):66-69. doi: 10.1370/afm.2634. PMID: 33431395.
  3. J, Anim T, Wusu MH, Foster KE, Parra Y, Amaechi O, Allen KC, Rodrรญguez JE, Campbell KM, Tumin D, Washington J. An Approach to Faculty Development for Underrepresented Minorities in Medicine. South Med J. 2021 Sep;114(9):579-582. doi: 10.14423/SMJ.0000000000001290. PMID: 34480190; PMCID: PMC8389351.
  4. Rodrรญguez, Josรฉ E., Kendall M. Campbell, and Judy C. Washington. “Dismantling Anti-Black Racism in Medicine.”ย American Family Physicianย 104.6 (2021): 555-556.
  5. Azzaย Eissa,ย Robynย Rowe,ย Andrewย Pinto,ย George N.ย Okoli,ย Kendall M.ย Campbell,ย Judy C.ย Washington,ย Josรฉ E.ย Rodrรญguez.ย  Implementing High-Quality Primary Care Through a Health Equity Lens The Annals of Family Medicineย Feb 2022,ย 2785;ย DOI:ย 10.1370/afm.2785
  6. Oni K, Allen K, Washington J. Prioritize Comprehensive Womenโ€™s Health Training, Protect Our Communities. Fam Med. 2022;54(8):658-659. https://doi.org/10.22454/FamMed.2022.203722.
  7. Rodriguez, Jose E., Kendall M. Campbell, and Judy C. Washington. “Remove Race as an Initial Identifier From Clinical Presentations Reply.”ย AMERICAN FAMILY PHYSICIANย 106.2 (2022): 120-121.
  8. Rodrรญguez, J.E., Figueroa, E., Campbell, K.M.ย et al.ย Towards a common lexicon for equity, diversity, and inclusion work in academic medicine.ย BMC Med Educย 22, 703 (2022). https://doi.org/10.1186/s12909-022-03736-6
  9. Foster KE, Robles J, Anim T, et al. What Do Underrepresented in Medicine Junior Family Medicine Faculty Value From a Faculty Development Experience? Fam Med. 2022;54(9):729-733. https://doi.org/10.22454/FamMed.2022.895447.
  10. Campbell, K. M., Washington, J. C., Baluchi, D., & Rodrรญguez, J. E. Submit It Again! Learning From Rejected Manuscripts.ย PRiMER,ย 6.
  11. Black Women & Public Health: Strategies To Name, Locate, And Change Systems Of Power SUNY PRESS, Black Women’s Wellness Book Series (2022) FROM THE INTRODUCTION: Black Women and Public Health: Strategies to Name, Locate, and Change Systems of Power seeks to create an interdisciplinary dialogue that bridges gaps between researchers, practitioners, educators, and advocates. Black womenโ€™s work in public health is a regenerative practice. Just as Dr. Anna Julia Cooper wrote in her 1892 essay, โ€œWomanhood: A Vital Element in the Regeneration and Progress of a Raceโ€ we look backward, inward, and forward to renew and refresh as we work to improve the quality of life for ourselves and others.     CHAPTER 11 Am I My Sisterโ€™s Mentor?: Why Mentoring Underrepresented Minority Medical and Public Health Faculty Can Improve the Health of Black Women. Andrea Anderson, Judy Washington, and Joedrecka S. Brown Speights

Thank you all for giving me the opportunity to collaborate and create.